The lesson: Spend time on your profile, and don't stress too much about your first e-mail! Be Direct When it comes to virtual dating, forget playing "hard to get." If someone you're interested in contacts you, it won't pay off to "casually" wait a few days to reply."If you play games and wait to get back to him, he may have already run off into the sunset with someone else," says Spira.
If someone is new to a site, his or her profile is often featured in the community and the person becomes inundated with e-mails.
So, assume that your interest hasn't had time to open your message.
But if there's silence after two e-mails, cut your losses and move on.6.
Taking the Relationship Offline The time to take your relationship beyond the boundaries of the dating site will eventually come.
"It gives a richer picture of who you are," he adds.